Getting Help

S2 EP24: If it was just a “situationship”, why do I feel so miserable?

In this episode, Kerry and Tara respond to a listener’s letter about the struggle of recovering from even just a situationship with a narcissist. Relationships with narcissists can be impact us negatively even when they aren’t long-term ones! And today’s self-help tip is about learning to replace previous/negative habits and behaviors with positives ones. Send…

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S2 EP 20: How will I know when I’m supposed to leave? What if I make the wrong decision?

In this episode, Kerry and Tara tackle one of the most asked questions of abuse survivors: how do I know if I should leave? We’ll discuss the common hindrances to making this decision and how to support a loved one who’s trapped in this kind of indecisiveness. Today’s self-help tip is to make a realistic…

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S2 EP14: Am I more vulnerable to toxic relationships because I have ADHD or Autism? The answer might surprise you.

In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the vulnerabilities those of us with ADHD or Autism might have in regards to toxic relationships. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice boundaried sharing with the social skyscraper. Follow Kerry and Tara on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube, and Facebook: Kerry’s accounts & Tara’s accounts. Are…

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S1 EP 68: I’ve lost my sense of self after narcissistic abuse. How do I reclaim it?

Narcissistic abuse damages our sense of self because our sense of self is constantly in flux. An exchange of psychological influence occurs between us and those around us. This episode will look closely at this process and how abuse impacts it and outline some ways to begin healing self-esteem after abuse. Follow me on Tiktok,…

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