Kerry McAvoy

S3 EP98: When You Return to the Abuse: Why It Takes 7 Tries to Leave a Narcissist

Send us a text Victims return to a narcissistically abusive relationship an average of seven times. In this episode, Lisa and I discuss why leaving a narcissist or toxic partner is so extremely difficult and share some thoughts on how to view leaving differently.  Are you struggling to stay out of a toxic relationship? Does…

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S3 EP97: How Narcissists’ Use Breadcrumbs of Love to Create an Agonizing Confusion

Send us a text Trauma bonds are one of the most misunderstood yet powerful connections that narcissists and toxic individuals exploit to keep their partners trapped. These bonds create a confusing dynamic where the very person causing harm becomes the source of comfort—a cycle that is as addictive as it is painful. In this replay…

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S3 EP96: Everything You Need to Know About Narcissism from 3 Experts: Dr. Les Carter, Dr. Peter Salerno, and Bill Eddy

Send us a text Today you are in for a treat with a longer interview, featuring three of my favorite experts on narcissism: Dr. Les Carter, Dr. Peter Salerno, and Bill Eddy. In this episode, each of these men will describe what is narcissism, how narcissists view relationships, and why they behave as bullies. Instead…

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S3 EP95: Why “Just Leave” is Terrible Advice: How Narcissists Keep You Trapped

Send us a text Have you been told that you should just leave? In this episode, Lisa Sonni and I discuss why this advice severely misses the mark. Why exiting a narcissistically abusive relationship is difficult and even dangerous for most abuse survivors. Resources Mentioned in the EpisodeThe Gift of Fear by Gavin de BeckerCharacter…

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S3 EP94: Could This Be Right for You? New Help and Hope for Narcissistic Abuse Survivors

Send us a text Narcissistic abuse often leaves devastating consequences to the survivor’s confidence and self-esteem. Today, Kristin Arden, DNP, APRN, PMHNP-BC, Mindbloom’s Clinical Director, and Shari Botwin, LCSW, trauma counselor, join me to discuss the use of ketamine therapy as a new alternate treatment option for trauma survivors. If you would like to learn…

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S3 EP93: Brainwashed & Spellbound: How Narcissistic Abuse is Really a Cult of Two

Send us a text Have you considered that a narcissistically abusive relationship is actually a cult of two? Daniella Mestyanek-Young, author of Uncultured and expert in cult dynamics, joins us to discuss the similarities between cult leaders and narcissists. Be sure to follow Daniella!TikTok – @knittingcultladyWebsite: Uncultureyourself.comAnd get a copy of her book, Uncultured: https://amzn.to/3CDhFcY…

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S3 EP92: Being Taken for Granted? How to Protect Your Big-Heartedness from Toxic People’s Manipulation

Send us a text As a nod to this week’s holidays, let’s revisit three of my favorite episodes that discuss how to handle being too big- or kind-hearted. We at the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday! Are you interested in the Podcast Extra Interviews? Get immediate access…

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S3 EP91: The High Costs of Toxic Relationships on Health, Wealth, and Peace of Mind

Send us a text Narcissistic relationships are parasitic in nature. Toxic personalities often drain others of their time, money, attention, and resources. In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the high and sometimes hidden cost of narcissistic relationships. Reference: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van de Kolk: https://amzn.to/3AtGt6z Looking for direction…

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S3 EP90: Feeling Confused? How Toxic People Keep Us Baffled and Stuck

Send us a text Have you noticed that when you’re finally ready to leave, your toxic or narcissistic partner suddenly does something amazing? How they surprise you to keep you off balance and confused about the state of the relationship? In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins to discuss how narcissists and other toxic people use…

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S3 EP89: When You Can’t Leave or Stay: How to Recognize a Trauma Bond

Send us a text There comes a point when you know you need to leave, but you can’t. The connection with your loved one is too powerful. In this episode, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss the signs and symptoms of a late-stage trauma bond. If you think you’ve been trauma bonded, become a subscriber…

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